U Not Gonna Like This

Apparently much has happened in my absence. A magazine that maybe of interest to men called
The Spearhead maintained by Welmer , Whiskey, Elusive Wapiti, Ferdinand Berdamu, and Prime.
You ccan visit thier magazine at the link below:


http://www.the-spearhead.com

Here's a new guy on the block by the name of Nova Seeker:

Here's his current home at Wordpress:

http://novaseeker.wordpress.com/


Here's his archives:

http://novaseeker.blogspot.com/

Not like most of 'em are gonna listen but here it is anyway from
Men's News Daily (link):

By Paul Elam | Aug 2, 2009



If you take an honest look at the academic environment to which our boys are subjected, you will see that their masculinity itself is under attack with ideology that teaches them they are inherently flawed.



Christina Hoff Sommers documented this in her highly recommended book “The War Against Boys.” She writes, “The pedagogy is designed to valorize females, such as teaching history in a woman-centered way. Boys are to be inspired to revere Anita Hill and to “enjoy” quilting. At the same time, schools discourage activities that are natural and traditional to boys, such as playing ball together.”



She goes on to say, with sad but pinpoint accuracy, “Most parents have no idea what their children are facing in the gender-charged atmosphere of the public schools.”



What Sommers didn’t add to that but I will is the fact that most parents have no idea about this because they choose not to.



As girls and girls programs increasingly flourish, boys are falling to the sidelines in ever growing numbers.



The results of that are chilling.



Boys are more likely than ever to drop out of school and engage in delinquency and other problems. They are representing less college graduates every year. With this diminishing education and wholesale marginalization, they are on a fast track to being the “second sex,” that position that so many feminists touted as the greatest evil of human history when they claimed it applied to women.



This is the lasting legacy of spitting on men. Your sons will not be the exception.

Here's something from the commnets section:

Posted by Denis
August 3rd, 2009

I would encourage all readers to read the following.

http://falserapesociety.blogspot.com/2009/07/men-have-lost-battle-of-sexes-because.html

If men want equality..fairness…respect…they will have to fight for it.

That will mean confronting women.



This is LONG overdue.



Men that behave like doormats will be treated like doormats.



Confronting women everywhere…at home…on the job…at political events…everywhere…is a lot easier than many of you men think.

Just f***ing do it.

I see that the current Prime Minster Gordon Brown (link) is on a short holiday and the queen of british fem-o-nasties Harriet harman has been on a rampage since.


All links via Men's Activism News (link):

Harriet Harman: In charge, but so out of touch: (link)

Harriet Harman digs in her heels to demand tougher rape law: (link)

UK: Seven days of feminist fantasies: (link)

If you want to find out why she's so bad visit the site below:

http://www.harrietharmansucks.com/

I've been making the rounds of the men's issues blogs the last couple of days and have seen this rant posted at two different blogs and have decided to put it here for the 6 to 10 of you that come through here every day.. Here's Anakin Niceguy's Necessary Rant (link):

All the recent discussion on various blogs about the decline of marriage and fatherhood has got me to thinking. Suppose you were on a cruise ship that got sucked into a maelstrom and landed on an island in a parallel universe. While on the island, you notice a odd phenomenon about the natives. All the men insist on only marrying healthy, attractive women. However, they routinely deny women adequate nutrition, exercise, etc. The end result is that most women are not attractive enough for the men. Also, the men routinely ignore some of the women who are partially attractive because the men have such high standards. So many partially attractive women grow old without a husband. Then the men ignore these women even more and accuse these women of having issues. The men also complain about their being "not enough good women to go around."

How would you feel about these men? How should one feel? You know where I am going with this, don't you? Yep, let's turn the tables. Now you know just how despicable many women are. There is a systemic problem with female expectations in this society. Let's face the facts: Men have been betrayed by women. When many of us were growing up in the shadow of feminism, we were told that women wanted equality. Did that mean true equality? Men were promised that they could be sensitive and they didn't have to be success objects. Men were led to believe that social dominance wasn't not as important as a man's character. Men were led to believe that women would love them for who they were and not for the roles people expected men to fulfill. It's all been a lie.

Too many women are not interested in equality as they are in "eekwalitee" (having their cake and eating it, too). Women are the choosier sex and often express a preference for socially dominant males (men who are confident, ambitious, resilient, industrious, and who have social assets - whether that be looks, wealth, intelligence, or whatever suits the whim of women for that given moment). After all, we are told that women need to pick wisely in order to maximize the benefit for their offspring.

And yet what have we seen?

1. Men being socially disenfranchised as women compete with them for social, legal, and economic power. Men are left scratching their heads. How can women expect men to provide something that women are taking away in the first place?

2. Men have been psychologically beaten down by an anti-male society. From an early age onward, they receive little or no affirmation or encouragement. They encounter very few positive male role models and they receive no real mentoring. Mostly it's blame, recrimination, ridicule, vilification, and neglect they receive at the hands of others and the hands of culture as a whole. The end result is that these men either don't have self-confidence or don't have any ambition (traits women find attractive in men). How could the men have these traits? How could they feel that they have a stake in a society that repeatedly demonstrates indifference, distrust, or outright hostility towards them? Again, how can anyone expect men to possess something that is being taken away in the first place?

The bottom line is that men are having an increasingly difficult time being what women want them to be. And what's even more disconcerting is that many women don't even seem to be bothered by that. It's make one wonder if women have just seen men as a means to an end: genetic material and resources for the offspring. Now that women can receive much of what they want without men, look how many of them act. Women in the mainstream media revel about the demise of men. If these women said similar things about blacks or Jews, they would be dismissed as mentally unhinged. Indeed, they are mentally unhinged, but very few people challenge these women on their sick, mindless, androphobic drivel.

Don't you dare tell me it's "the way women are" and that I need to deal with it. If we place social constraints on the behavior of men, then corresponding constraints need to be placed on women. Churches rant and rave about male promiscuity, the "male gaze", and men "being hung up on looks." Where are the church sermons that address the problem women have in objectifying men as success objects? Have you heard any lately? In the animal kingdom, a lot of female organisms work to accumulate resources for themselves and their offspring with little or no regard for others. Male organisms are reduced to a disposable resource. What are faith communities doing to challenge women to move beyond such a base mode of existence? We talk about a "Christian worldview" but I think a lot of conservative women act like Darwinists in their relationship with men. We are hypocritical when we suggest that masculinity and the male sex drive are sinfully disordered (a result of the Fall, or whatever), but the behavior of women is just "something natural" and the "way they were designed." Excuse me, but I have a difficult time believing the Creator designed women to treat men like tools, or worse, like garbage.

A lot of women are being incredibly foolish if they think society can move on just fine without being concerned about the welfare of men. Readers should take note of this: Women have no power unless men consent to it. That even goes for sexual power. If men don't have a personal stake in the welfare of future generations, then there won't be any future generations. If a critical mass of men start caring more about video games than about impregnating women and parenting the resultant offspring, then this society will fall flat on its face (or it will be replaced by something more rooted in reality). The future is not independent-minded white women. The future is traditionalist, brown-skinned women of an "ancient and enduring" people "whose language you do not know."

Women can't expect to play "top dog" and yet be married to the "top dog." There can only be one "top dog." Embracing gender equality means ditching the Alpha Male Fantasy(tm). Embracing the Alpha Male Fantasy(tm) means ditching gender equality. Remember what I said about the New Gender Deal. (link) Women can't have it both ways.

People also need to start showing genuine compassion, concern, and respect for men as human beings; they need stop acting like men need to earn these things. Otherwise, an increasing amount of men are going to get the idea that nobody genuinely and honestly cares about their inherent worth as people. When men start believing that, they are not going to show much care and concern in return. I think that lies at the heart of much of the crimes men commit.

In short, if nothing changes, then women are going to destroy this society. It's going to be a classic case of the Tragedy of Commons. You don't like me talking about women? Too bad. There's going to be little or no real progress for men and women until women get their act together and rethink their behavior. We can blame the government, the liberals, the New World Order, technology, chivalrous men, genes, or whatever, but here's the indisputable truth: A critical mass of women are primarily responsible for the mess that has come about. Someone needs to point this out. When women constantly belittle, demean, and marginalize men at every turn, someone needs to say something. When women try to have their "eekwalitee" cake and eat it too, giving men the shaft in the process, someone needs to say something. Otherwise, the whole mess is going to explode in the face of women, and they will have no one to cry to.

(End of rant.)

This is one I came across many months ago but have forgotten to post until now. It's another forum specifically for the discussion of men's right's.

MRA USA Fourm:

http://tinyurl.com/mrausaforum


Alternate backup link:

http://snipurl.com/mrausaforum

A comprehensive bibliography of writing on men, masculinities, gender, and sexualities:

Here's the Men's Rights section:

http://mensbiblio.xyonline.net/mensrights.html


Here's the front page:

http://mensbiblio.xyonline.net

An excellent list of links on this web page:

Peter Zohrab Mens Rights Resources Page

http://peterzohrab.tripod.com/mensreso.html


And just in case you would like to see the rest of the site here is his
front page:

http://peterzohrab.tripod.com/index.html

Another story of a young man wrongfully accused of sexual assult and sent to prison.

Ricky's Life

http://www.rickyslife.com

A new site on the block as far as MRA sites go:

Rights For Men:

http://www.rightsformen.com/

A small but good site that I have in my handy-dandy MRA site bookmarks:

Mens-Rights.net

http://www.mens-rights.net